Saturday, November 22, 2008

Life is full of little miracles



Siyabonga Caleb Moyo
born 15 November 2008 at 13:40 to the proud parents of Amanda and Sipho Moyo



Amanda, Sipho and I have become good friends in the last months. It has been exciting to be with them as they made all the preparations for their son. This photo was taken in the hospital about 5 hours after he came into the world :)Isn't he gorgeous! (p.s Siyabonga means thankful/thankyou in zulu)

Friday, November 21, 2008

Home Affairs

The last place I would wish for anyone to have to spend their day is waiting in a line at the immigration office. I have heard horror stories from these places. It is more like an amoeba than a line of people waiting to see the next available officer. In fact, the immigration and refugee office here has a daily sea of people that flow past the immediate grounds and into the park across the street. Being aware of this I have been working diligently (and nervously) to gather the stack of documents necessary to extend my visa. I wanted to be absolutely certain that I would only have to wait in the line once. Last week Thursday I even took a special trip down to the visa renewal office at the Home Affairs building to scope out the whole scene and gauge the amount of patience I was going to need to be prepared with.
Last night I felt this urgency within me informing me that I needed to go to Home Affairs today. I was a little anxious because I didn’t quite have all the documentation that could possibly be requested. Like most things, it is taking much longer than expected to obtain a South African health insurance plan that will cover me next year. I have attempted to meet with the representative on campus a half dozen times without success. But at the urging of something from within me, I gathered the completed but unprocessed application for South African medical insurance along with the copy of my current health insurance, and took the risk to get this done. I arrived at the office at 7:35AM, 15 minutes past the time I was recommended to pitch up (yet to be expected, as I am typically late wherever I go) To my great surprise and astonishment, there was only three people in the waiting area. Taking a seat on the bench to the right I prayed that I chose the right bench to sit on as there was no resemblance of a line. And the ambiguity of this ‘line’ only intensified as more people poured in behind me. By the time I left the office an hour and a half later, there was no place to sit and definitely no semblance of a line.
After an hour of waiting I was in a small, dank room talking with an officer. He picked through my application with a fine tooth comb. My anxiety rose with every question he asked anticipating rejection of my application… not the right forms, not enough forms, signature isn’t identical on every document- I sat waiting for him to tell me to come back another day and do this all over again. However, to my surprise and delight, he stapled it together and placed my application in the bin to be processed and then informed me to pick up my extended visa in two weeks. :) I wanted to kiss him on the cheek and dance all the way out the door. Things usually never work out like they are “supposed” to around here, you know, the way I think they should or in the time I want things to be done. My friend Matt refers to this a ‘mazanzi style’, and it continuously forces me to take a big chill pill and to rejoice in the little things.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

ready. set. write.

After a lot of doubt, a long struggle and even a few tears, I submitted the first stage of my research project- the proposal. and in turn this week has been filled with rejoicing. I have received approval from the higher degrees committee at UKZN! I can officially move forward on my dissertation research. My thesis will be entitled:
Is nutritional priority given to pregnant women? An exploration of intra-household food allocation: a qualitative study of poor rural pregnant women in the Inchanga area.
I have spent the last couple of weeks organizing notes and obtaining articles to read. I even organized all my files on my computer- Richard, you would be so proud ;) All that to say, I am feeling pretty good about the project and am ready to start writing. I will spend the remainder of this month in my study office at my school with the goal of writing the first three chapters before I return to California for Christmas holidays!!
Upon my return to Durban in January, I will begin my fieldwork interviewing pregnant women in the Inchanga area. Inchanga is a rural area about a 50 minute drive from Durban. I was introduced to the area through the work of Rotary. I am excited to learn about and utilize the qualitative research methods...and a bit nervous about using a translator. I'll keep you posted as the work progresses. In the mean time, thanks for celebrating this small victory with me!

Sunday, October 26, 2008

update

it is a gorgeous day here! the sun is shining and the wind is gently playing in the trees. we are supposed to be heading into summer however, as of late the weather has been mostly rainy and gray.
my absence from this blog is due to the fact that life has been both full and good. All of my coursework was completed about a month ago!! and as you expected, i did thoroughly enjoy the seminars and received good marks. my final two classes were Research Methods and Social Policy (social policy being one of my favorite courses in the whole program). since then I have been putting together my proposal for my research and will submit my proposal to the higher degrees committee next week! I have received positive feedback from my supervisor and other professors, so it is becoming exciting. I will spend the next two months reading and writing the first three chapters of my dissertation, then will be doing my fieldwork at a rural government clinic here in KZN in January. this will consist of interviewing pregnant women to obtain information on their needs/nutrition and whether they receive a priority within their household. I had a fascinating experience last week when I visited the antenatal clinic. while i was there 3 pregnant women came in for normal visit and I then I also watched two women have their stitches removed after c-section- my quesyness confirmed the very reason I am not a nurse, but rather am working toward a master's in development studies.

the big news is that I have decided to stay on in South Africa! As mentioned, I will do my field research in January after I return for a short visit over the Christmas holiday. In addition to writing my dissertation I will be working in the church. I have transferred my membership to the local congregation in morningside and have my local minister's license here. in addition to learning what it is to be a pastor (doing hospital visits, preaching, weddings, etc) I am also heading up the compassionate ministries/missions outreach arm of the church throughout the upcoming year. this will be a great experience and i'm excited!

Christmas holidays:
I will be in California for about a month- 10 December -7 January! (though still looking for a flight to return to SA) I am really exited to return home for a bit to have some good mexican food and visit family and friends! It has been a long while so it will be so goood to catch up! :)

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

School of Development Studies

In case anyone is interested, here is the link to my study program. I even managed to get tagged in a photo on the home page.

http://sds.ukzn.ac.za

Its a fantastic program- rigorous and challenging in its demands, beautiful in its diversity and full of opportunity to explore the issues I am passionate about. It's been good for me.

Things I will do today:
-read, read, read
-speak to my research supervisor who will enable me to
-write, write, write
-trade back massages with Anna
-run with Mary

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Hluhluwe-Infolozi Game Park




































It was fun to hang out of the truck to get a photo with the elephant. He was a stubborn old man who wouldn't move out of the road to let us pass by on our morning game drive. It was incredible to wake at 4 am, while the stars were still glimmering in the sky, to have several moments to commune with nature. Our morning drive departed from base promptly at 6 am with the sun just beginning to come up over the horizon. As we made our way through the park, eyes fixated on the bush waiting for movement and ears attuned to the choir of birds, we saw three of South Africa's big five- elephant, rhino and buffalo, plus giraffes, zebra and lots of other fun things. One of the highlights was the Tuesday morning hike that we went on. We came across a rhino and her cub who gracefully glided through the brush about 50 yards from where we were walking. It was beautiful. I went with Anna's parents and had 3 wonderful days and two nights.
This trip was the final trip for my 'winter' travel. We returned to Durban on Wednesday July 30 only to commence courses on Thursday. After such a free and fantastic time of travel I am finding it a bit difficult to regather all the discipline I know that is within me to focus on coursework again. But it is a good process. I am so grateful for all these experiences. I have been refreshed and rejuvenated in ways I didn't know was possible. I know that the energy and peace gained over the last six weeks will better enable me to find that delicate balance between studies/the things that are required of me and the things that bring life.

Friday, July 25, 2008

a detailed entry: 4 July 2008



























Fourth of July I stumbled out of bed upon Anna’s insistence that I quickly go outside. I did not know what could be so important as to take me from my sweet dreams that were encouraged by the soothing sounds of waves crashing on the shore just meters from my bed. We were staying at Beach Haven Backpackers in Wilderness along the gorgeous Garden Route of South Africa’s coastline. After climbing the stairs up to the viewing deck my jaw dropped. The only reaction any of us had was Oh, wow! Shooting up out of the ocean were two full rainbows bursting with color and completing their arch by falling into the hills behind us. Birds were chirping their morning glory, whales were blowing water up into the sky and dolphins were dancing. Fireworks of the very best kind- completely natural, completely spectacular.

The entire day was spent oohing and aawing this beautiful land. From Wilderness we continued our drive up through the Klein Karoo. We took a tour of the Kango Caves and then continued on the steep dirt path of the Swartberg pass before arriving at the quaint town of Prince Albert. Here we celebrated the day with burgers and fries, but not the good ol American style- we had delicious Ostrich burgers with Pumpkin fritters. …mmm, yum. Highlights of Prince Albert included this dinner, the Saturday morning market, sipping tea in front of a cozy fireplace at a quaint cafĂ© and an early morning hike/run up and along the red rock ridge.

travels

19 June- 11 July Anna and I traveled South Africa's gorgeous Garden Route. There were some stunning views, beautiful people and lots of good times. We stopped at every farm stall to admire the homemade jams, mustards and other crafts, had a cup of tea in many of the small towns and just enjoyed life. We took a combination of buses, rental cars and returned to Durbs by plane. It was fantastic. We travelled the N2 along the eastern coast along the route until we got to a town called George, where we headed north to the Swartburg pass, the quaint town of Prince Albert and then along Route 62 into Cape Town.

Here are a few pictures of our journey.






Anna and I on the Salt River Trail in Nature's Valley. A 5 hour hike through the fields, forest and around the lagoon. Stunning.







A quick stop at the Kango Caves for a tour. www.cangocaves.co.za/








This is the Swatberg pass. One of my favorite days of the trip was taking this windy dirt pass up and over into Prince Albert. The red rock formation filled me with awe.











Top of the Pass :)





The westerly southernmost point on the continent. We spent the day hiking around the Cape of Good Hope imagining what it would have been like to have been on a passenger ship coming around the cape. We also stopped at Boulder Beach to admire the penguins and took the tour of Robben Island and Parliamen while in Cape Town.



Then the following week I hopped on a bus with Drew, Tom, Will headed to Maputo, capital of Mozambique for four days. It was a beautiful drive through South Africa, Swaziland and into Maputo. We went to the museums, ate amazing prawns on a deck overlooking the ocean and picked up some amazing sea shells.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

now for some photos





Alicia, Anna and I at the Sugar Shack backpackers lodge in East London. It was 50 meters from the waves crashing on the shore- absolutely amazing. We went on a nice morning jog the first day we were here.






This is the 4 month old lion knawing on my arm. check out the size of his paw...








Love is in the air with our friend Jenny. She was very friendly and photogenic. Plus she had a blue tongue.






South African's are serious about their BBQ's (aka Braii). check out the amount and variety of meat on this grill! This particular shot is from a Braii after a morning of lawn bowling. Needless to say, I was on the losing team...

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

seeing

traveling is not just a matter of going to new places, but experiencing landscapes with new eyes.

My friend Tas sent Anna and I this message as we departed for our travel along the garden route. from Durban to Cape Town. We will be traveling for three weeks. We set out on June 19th (Happy Birthay Mel!) on a 13 hour bus ride from Durban to East London. The weekend here was fantastic! Hospitality was in abundance. I was truly inspired by the Rotarians who hosted us and the work that was taking place in the community. It was a beautiful experience. The weekend included everything from Lawn Bowling, to braiing (BBQ), to holding 4 month old white lions (let me tell you at 4 months, they're already amazingly big and strong!).
After a quick stop over in Grahamstown with our friend Alicia, Ann and I hired a car to drive 300k to Nature's Valley where we spent four nights. The stars felt like they were 10 feet away - stunning! The trail we hiked on Thursday led us through the fields and forrest, along the cliffs and down into the lagoon. This holiday has been a gift. It is here in this place that I was really abl to relax and live the fullest I have ever lived in the present moment. and it was beautifully peaceful.
We are currently back at Grahamstown enjoying the International Arts Festival. http://www.nationalartsfestival.co.za/ Its a small quaint town that is positioned in the middle of a valley. The students from the university are what give this place life. And for 2 weeks out of the year, about 70,000 people embark on it to enjoy music, dancing, poetry and some really good food. Our friend Samantha had a captivating performance as part of the Witts Choir last night. The harmony gracefully filled the chapel we were in and gently embraced all us who were present. There are three other scholars we have met up with here. It is good to be amongst friends as I explore more fully the vastness of the country.

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

an invitation

There is a lot happening in the world and in this country. most times my deepest sigh is, oh life! (translated: Lord have mercy) I recently went to a seminar sponsored by the university on "xenophobia in South Africa, why now?" but the question really is, 'why at all?' yet the news reports tell of violence in every corner of the world. Sitting in the lush gardens on the hill of academia, there is so many things I/ we wrestle with. What is our response? How do we make policy effective and relevant? What is development anyway? In all this I recently returned to the first paper I wrote here. I would like to post it here to invite you into my life and some of the things that I am learning and the questions I am wrestling with. Let me know what you think.

Think Piece 1
Comparative Development Problems and Policies

Backward. To use this as both an identifying and descriptor term is problematic. It provides all things necessary for successful self-fulfilling prophesy, which in this case results in nothing positive. This term, in addition to other pejorative terms such as the third world, implies an inherent disability, disadvantage, or inability to get it right. It implies that which is completely different and perhaps even unsalvageable. It is inherently ethnocentric. When determining a developmental theory to put into practice, it is a wonder that historically there was any attempt to extract anything good out of these ‘backward’ countries. How can one begin on this platform and realistically expect any good or proper outcome?
In the post WWII era Paul Rosenstein-Rodan wrote on the developmental theory for backward countries and the necessary conditions for growth therein. As one of the earliest contributors, Rosenstein-Rodan had much influence on the theorists who followed who would try to explain backwardness and solutions for escaping this condition. Or perhaps it is more accurate to state that he simply recorded most accurately the ethnocentric sentiments of the developed world at the time, bringing to light the negative feelings and so-called inherent inabilities of the backward countries. This notion might be affirmed as the majority in the first world understood that “through economic dominance and political control, the industrial countries actively tried to graft their own ‘modern’ and development-promoting cultures on to the backward societies.” Therefore, if the ‘forward’ and correct thinking countries projected policies and lifestyles onto the ‘backward’ countries, perhaps they would become like them or more appropriately, turn from their ‘backward’ ways to ‘the forward’ way.
What remains puzzling to me is why in 1997 when John Martinussen’s book Society, States and Market was published, or even now, 11 years later in 2008 we continue to focus on the ‘backwardness’ of countries in the developing world and thus continues to encourage the self-fulfilling prophecy of poor performance and growth. It is evident now that the self-image and policies implemented in the ‘backward’ countries reflect to a large degree the image and policies that has been given to them throughout the history of development. In this I question our ability to be critical thinkers if we continue to let the labels of history guide our conversations, academic works and policies. Are we struggling enough with how to label people and countries? Do we realize the affect these labels have on self-image and self-understanding of ourselves individually, nationally and corporally? Why have we not come to a place of respect and acceptance of others that would enable us to overcome our self-centeredness or ethnocentrism?
Perhaps out of the reading selections Gunnar Myrdal can help us most here as he “strongly believed that a certain degree of economic and social equality and equity was a precondition for sustained growth. He rejected the widespread conception that there is a contradiction between the objectives of economic growth and those of promoting social equality.” Social equity must be found in all spheres of society, including the way in which we view and label ourselves and the other. I agree alongside Myrdal in his rejection of the notion that economic growth and social equality cannot go hand in hand. This is especially the case if the goal is sustainable growth and development. In order to achieve this equity must be a factor at all levels of participation for all people. And this means that we must use new terms and names to identify people and people groups that invite full participation.
Unfortunately promotion of social equality has often been bypassed in the name of high sustained growth or toward W.W. Rostrow’s “Ă©poque of high mass consumption.” Theories have been created to address the problems of underdevelopment that “analyze ‘barriers to modernization’ and ‘resistance to change.” Yet what this really translates to is theories addressing the ‘backward’ countries’ resistance to assimilation to the dominant, ‘forward’ countries and the sustaining of growth, which by no means equates sustainable growth.
As much as one might have hoped that solutions would be found in the modernization paradigm, Magnus Blomstrom and Bjorn Hettne write, “the disciplines that now began to participate in the theoretical discussion repeated the early mistakes of development economics…it was difficult to break the ethnocentric perspective and to change culturally determined premisses.” I argue that we never arrived here. But we must continue to make progress in this direction. In order to do so, it has to be a collective process. For all of us to move forward, we must critically examine the language that is used and critique the language of our common history. Only then will growth and participation at all levels for all people be sustainable.

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Birthday celebrations!

As I reflect on my birthday just days ago, I can't help but think about the other 25 birthdays I have had as well. I must say I missed having a family celebration with enchilada casserole and spice cake and being surrounded by family...but be assured, I had fantastic day.
The day began at 5:03 am when I woke up frantically. I was supposed to pick up Mary at 5, so I was already late. We made our way down to Kings Park Stadium and ran a 10K race. It was fantastic! The route went right alone the waterfront and the sun was still rising over the ocean. Amazing! We ran a great race, 6 minute kilometers.
For the main celebration, Anna and Drew prepared a Mexican Fiesta! complete with homemade corn tortillas, guacamole, salsa, beans and rice. There were about 15 people who came to have a good time and celebrate life. 'Happy Birthday' was sung in at least 7 different languages. It was fantastic and very special.
Huge thanks to all you, my family and friends for your warm thoughts and love. I definitely felt special by all your e-cards and phone calls. (I have pictures that I will post soon)

Monday, May 26, 2008

consequences of procrastination

the walk home was spectacular today. the stormy wind wisping through my hair, the sun streaming through the clouds onto the harbor- it made me smile. Upon arriving at my house, my clothes were hanging beautifully on the line; dry, fresh and ready to be collected. In my laziness I thought to myself, I will come out later... well, later happened after thunder struck and the sky let lose. all my fresh clothes are now sopping wet clothes laid gently throughout all the furniture in the living room.

plan for tomorrow:
stop procrastinating
write my a poverty analysis paper for my class
post pictures of yesterday's fantastic birthday celebration

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

for wednesday

Trust

It's like so many other things in life
to which you must say no or yes.
So you take your car to the new mechanic.
Sometimes the best thing to do is trust.

The package left with the disreputable-looking
clerk, the check gulped by the night deposit,
the envelope passed by dozens of strangers—
all show up at their intended destinations.

The theft that could have happened doesn't.
Wind finally gets where it was going
through the snowy trees, and the river, even
when frozen, arrives at the right place.

And sometimes you sense how faithfully your life
is delivered, even though you can't read the address.


-Thomas R. Smith, from Waking before Dawn.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

my tummy is smiling

happiness = 3 thick whole wheat buttermilk pancakes covered in fresh applesauce
mmm... delicious dinner!

Thursday, May 8, 2008

God is good- all the time

I received a phone call from my bank about 9:45 this morning informing me that my wallet had been lost. My only response was, thank you for informing me. It wasn’t until this call that I started to think... hmm, true, I did not see it in my bag this morning. I was carrying 3 bags yesterday, so I assumed it had to be in one of the others. It was not. It had escaped my purse last night at the shopping center. A kind couple picked it up and went immediately to my bank to put a stop on my debit card and had the bank notify me of my wallet’s whereabouts. They returned it with all the cash, debit card, my CA driver’s license and the USPS stamps. It was incredible! In a country that speaks so frequently of theft and lack of hope for humanity- here is proof that not all is what it seems. Proof that there are truly so many good people around who desire to live the best and fullest life possible.

Other highlights of this particularly astounding day include:
- Safe keeping from an almost accident. I was within inches of hitting a couple who turned right in front of me. Whew!
- Finally having my registration and school paperwork completely taken care of (good thing it’s only May!)
- A super delicious eggplant curry for lunch and fantastic friends to eat with.
- A great pastor who is willing to take moments out of busy busy day to talk
- Real tortilla chips! chapstick and gum arrived with several other goodies- THANKS MOM!
- Good conversation over tea at Mugg & Bean
- Prospects of a great weekend!

Monday, April 28, 2008

for all this I am grateful

So a lot has happened in this last month!
After all that diligent work, I successfully finished my first quarter of courses! Wahoo! So the moment after I turned in my last paper, we took of to the central part of the Drakensberg Mountains to a camp place called Injisuthi. It was absolutely gorgeous!! These pictures don’t do it justice. We stayed for two nights and three days in a cabin or what they call a chalet. It was simple and clean and extremely nice. We did all our own cooking and they powered off the generator by 10pm, so we got lots of well needed rest. In the central Berg is also where the rock paintings are. We took about a 4 hour hike out for our viewing. It was pretty neat. Courses for the second quarter started right away, or we would have stayed there for at least a week. It was amazing!

The last weeks have been fantastic. It seems that with every passing day I begin to like it here a bit more. I am feeling much more adjusted and settled in. Anna and I moved to a new flat at the beginning of April. We live with Karina and her six year old son Matty. Drew, Greg, and Nolan live in the flat above us. It’s wonderful to have people around. We have a lot of meals together and help provide motivation for each of us to get our work done.
I have also been embraced by a beautiful church here. It’s lovely. The folks are extremely warm and inviting. I am grateful. Furthermore they are very supportive of me as pastor invited me to preach the sermon the last two Sundays. It was a beautiful and affirming experience.





Going to the Berg for some R&R!
me, Anna, Jim and Drew







this is when Drew's car broke down... ah, shame.
we were about 10k from the camp site. but everything worked itself out.








Hanging out beneath the rock paintings






Absolutely Gorgeous!

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

everyday life stuff...

for those of you who are curious, here is what I am doing today: I woke up at 7am after six and a half hours of sleep, ate oats with lots of Cinnamon and natural chunky peanut butter...mmm. I made a salad with tomatoes, mushrooms and cheese to take with me for lunch along with an apple and banana. The walk to school took 40 minutes today, a bit longer than most days. Anna and I were going at a leisurely pace and enjoying a refreshing morning after a night of rain.
Now I am in my 6x6 study office sitting in my red plastic chair, surrounded by articles that I have yet to read and others that will give me good direction. I am currently writing a paper on the post-WWII development strategies of Mexico. Until I turn it in next Tuesday I will be spending a lot of time in this little office. I do have fun pictures of all you family posted and also of scenic places in California, so my walls are nice to look at and it is not claustrophobic. sometime around 7pm I will go home to a bowl of supper yummy borche soup that I made on Sunday and then study for my economy exam that is scheduled for Friday. this means that tomorrow I will get up and do much of the same.
I am sustained by the friends I am making and the anticipation of completion of school work.
Life is beautiful.

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Easter Weekend

Anna, Alicia and I woke up super early to attend the Diakonia Good Friday service. This picture is of a choir singing on the steps of City Hall after the flowering of the cross toward the end of the interdenominational service. We arrived at 5:30am and the service went until about 8:40 am. It was the earliest I have ever left a 3 hour church service. We had a great time. The procession from the convention center to these steps on city hall was done in complete silence and in the rain. It was quite an experience focused on 'who is my neighbor'. Here in South Africa, they take Good Friday off as a public holiday, which they also label 'Human Rights Day'. This service spoke beautifully about the connection between the two occasions. It was pretty powerful. There were approximately 1,500 people in attendance.


Happy Happy Easter! (on Sunday)
Easter was amazing! It was truly the best day I have had in months. The whole day was life-giving. The whole weekend was full of good times building up to this day. Our friend Alicia, a scholar studying in Grahamstown came to visit us for the holiday. And for the first time since my arrival, I put aside all my school work to explore the city that I live in, and had a great time hanging out with friends. It was fantastic! We enjoyed many amazing meals both as restaurants and a Mexican fiesta that we prepared for my host family. Chips, salsa and the works. It was delicious! Also, I went to the beach several times. Sand between the toes is one of the best sensations ever.
These are several friends who came to the Easter feast on Sunday afternoon. From left to right: me, Drew, Anna, Ciriaque, Matt, Pilou, Emefa, and Alicia. There ended up being 16 people who came. We had chicken, mashed potatoes, salads, deviled eggs and lots of yummy desert! It was a fantastic time.




Easter Sunday was all-around fantastic. We had a true sunrise service at the church I have been attending, Morningside Community Church of the Nazarene. We were set up on the lawn and the sun came up streaming through the trees. It was quite nice. The service was followed by two baptisms and then also a fish braai (bbq). It was fabulous, right out of the book of John.
We all lounged around for an additional 3 hours talking and enjoying each other's company. It was my ideal way of spending the morning. Church was followed by a fantastic trip to the beach where we enjoyed milkshakes and further conversations. Then I spent the early part of the afternoon preparing and roasting 2 small chickens, our oven was hardly big enough, but they turned out absolutely phenomenal! Moist and falling off the bone. We hosted a huge Easter potluck at Drew's flat, which will be above the flat that Anna and I move into next week! Hooray! With this move we will be much closer to town and in walking distance to many things. Rumor has it that there is also a running club that meets across the street, so I will definitely have to check that out.

Monday, March 17, 2008

pap makes friends

In the aftermath of a couple extremely trying weeks and following few breakdowns I have received beautiful reminders of the sheer goodness of life. It’s been a great weekend!

Pap. That’s what they call it here. It’s a corn meal dish most similar to what we would call grits, and very filling. I gave Siriaque and Emma a lift home yesterday (yes, our car is finally working. And better yet, the man who sold it to us paid the repair bill! Wahoo). So after hanging out in an area called Davenport with most of our classmates from the Development studies program, I volunteered to give lifts. I had been wanting to see the campus residences, aka ‘the res’, so what better time to check it out. While I anticipated a short tour and some small talk, I ended up staying for two and half hours. The turn of events was that the entire time Siriaque was devising a whole scheme to host us which included him sneaking off to the kitchen to prepare pop for both Emma and I. It was a fantastic time and a delicious meal. I told him I would return once a week, minimum, to prepare a good African meal together.
On a full stomach, I rejoined the group that I left in Davenport in an area just to the north called Morningside. We went to the infamous ‘Florida Avenue’. This is supposedly the street where everything worthy of happening happens. It has all the cool restaurants and clubs and is probably one of three places in town that stays open later than 10pm. We went to Taste of India to celebrate Ariel’s birthday. There were six of us there who have been absolutely amazing to me in this time of transition and in living out all the questions that our classes present to us. I was really glad to be there in that moment. The Bar 1 chocolate cake is amazing, with rich fudge icing. A perfect ending to any day.
Saturday and Sunday were fairly productive days in writing a paper for my economics course and studying for an exam in sustainable community development. It was wonderful to be at church Sunday morning where I continuously meet new friends. This week came with the promise of a cooking exchange. I will get to teach them how to make tortillas while they teach me how to make delicious curry...yum.

Monday, March 10, 2008

Cape Town

Cape Town is beautiful! Here are some photos of our super fun weekend. Anna, Drew, Valerie and I traveled to CT for a Rotary orientation weekend and spent several additional days enjoying the life of a tourist. We went all over town, to the green market, hiked parts of both Lion's Head and Table Mountain. It was fantastic!









Me and Desmond
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Overlooking the city Lion's Head









A fantastic time drumming








Anna, Drew and I having a great time








Hanging out in a vineyard for a Sunday afternoon braai



Monday, February 18, 2008

firsts...

I got into the front seat of the right hand side of the car yesterday, put the clutched in and revved the engine. Using my left hand I put the gearshift into first gear, but when trying to put the turn signal on, I ended up sending the windshield wipers across the front of the car, for the indicator is now located to the right of the steering wheel, not the left…I pulled out slowly and hesitantly into the left lane of an empty road. Hugging the curb on the left hand side, from some innate fear of the divider being on my right, we eventually made it onto the open highway and around town. Whew! Success! My first time driving on the left hand side of the road! And in the car of what will become the shared purchase of my amazing roommate Anna and I. It is a 1997 iridescent green Hyundai Sonata. It’s a full sized car, which looks like a big boat compared to other miniature cars on the road here. The deal maker of this purchase is that the guy offered to buy it back from us in December. How great is that.

Other firsts of this last week include: my first ride in a combie, a South African Taxi/ VW bus that ‘safely’ took us into the centre of town. My first public bus and regular taxi ride. I went to the herb market of traditional healing. I also had my first taste of a Bean Bunny, a half loaf of bread hallowed out and filled with beans and vegetables in a spicy curry sauce. It’s a Durban Specialty and quite nice. I attended my first South African Braai last weekend! The beautiful arrangement of salads and meats was amazing. I was impressed. There were about 30 people who gathered at Alethea’s home, all of us somehow connected to Rotary. There are 4 of us who are current scholars from the states and about 5 previous scholars who have remained in South Africa to finish their dissertation and continue working. I must admit that my favorite part was dessert. The meringue pie was divine!

Its official, I am a UKZN student now! Hooray! And I hope that by the time you are reading this I also have a student ID card. Obtaining this will make all lose ends complete. Upon arrival and well into my first module course, a week long course on Sustainable Development Feb 4-8, I realized that the structure and overall format of the course of study I had applied for, Master of Community Development, was not exactly what I was looking for. It would have yielded 4 weeks of class this entire year! While there was a slight hesitation, contemplating all the amazing travel adventures I could go on, I decided that I had to change my program. So last Tuesday I applied and was received into the Master of Development Studies. This course is quite opposite in its rigor and demand. We started coursework on Wednesday and have already read hundreds of pages and turned in our first think piece paper. The program requires six, 8 week modules and a dissertation. The courses I am enrolled in for this quarter are, Sustainable Development, Economics of Development and Economic Development Problems and Policies. Other courses that I will have this year include: Poverty and Inequality, Informal Economy, Globalization and Development and Research. I am very excited and motivated. On average we have class 4 days a week. There are about 25 people in the program who are all quite fantastic. It is a rich and diverse setting with students from Zimbabwe, Malawi, Burundi, Cameroon, Norway, France, India, and of course the US and South Africa. The camaraderie between students is fun and inviting. We spend many of our break periods together in addition to socializing on the beach or at restaurants.

I have attended Calvary Church of the Nazarene in Pinetown the previous three Sunday’s I have found a beautiful community in them. They are a small congregation that meets in a community building about 20 minute drive from my house. Thankfully there are folks who live in my neighborhood who are able to give me a lift every week. It is nice.

Overall life is pretty great. My Rotarian hosts are extremely hospitable. We eat together every Thursday night. 7pm is news and wine/juice, followed at 7:30 is some sort of amazing curry concoction. Meals are delicious. Both Anna and I have a vegetable palate and love to prepare fun creations. The ingredients here are fresh. In fact, I can’t wait to get to the farmer’s market that they have every Saturday. Anna moved in last weekend. She’s fabulous. Not only do I appreciate the company of living with her, Anna and I have an appreciation for many of the same things in life and God and will be able to sojourn together throughout the year. And I must mention, Drew continues to live in the flat over the garage. He is from Orange County and adds a lot of fun to our mix. The three of us are in the same program and get along quite well. We all, Anna, Drew, Valerie and I are headed to Cape Town on Wednesday. Should be fantastic.


And now for a picture: This is Anna and I with Rotary District Governor Richard Fisher and his wife on the left at Rotary Alumni event in PineTown on Saturday.

Saturday, February 9, 2008

RAIN

I had a most fantastic walk home this afternoon. The sky opened up and poured down rain. Rather than speed up, I intentionally slowed down to take in the pungent aromas and vibrant landscape. Rain was running like veins down my arms pumping life into my being. My hair was plastered flat to my head. The temperature had not dropped below 80* even at night and with high humidity it is draining. Thankfully not as sweltering as KC last summer, especially as my fridge here keeps as cool as ours did there.

I have completed 3/5 of the seminars for my first module course in Sustainable Development. There are 10 of us; half of us are full time students and the others are working professionals. What is amazing about this is not the fact that I have been here 8 days and completed the majority of my first module, but that I have almost completed it and don’t have any additional information about my program or how to officially become a registered student! They tell me that they will have orientation sometime later in the semester…helpful. In the mean time I continue to wait in lines, track down people, obtain signatures, and go round and round. Most days I find all this rather amusing. As long as they don’t fret I see no reason to do so either.

Last Tuesday at 9:50 pm my flight arrived in Durban, 15 minutes ahead of schedule. I couldn’t have asked for a better journey here. All my luggage arrived, all my flights were ahead of schedule and I never had to wait in line. It was amazing. I was greeted by John Ferguson who proudly displayed a large Rotary sign for me to locate him. His wife Maggie is most delightful. I am currently renting a flat that is attached to their house. It is a furnished two-bedroom apartment. Anna, another Rotary Scholar, will move in this weekend. Drew, a third Rotary scholar lives in the flat upstairs. It is good to have friends nearby to live in these transitional times.

Like most things new and in countries unfamiliar, all things have been a maze to navigate. I finally obtained a cell phone a couple days ago. Mostly I wait to figure out how to obtain internet access. Because I am not a registered student, I have no privileges on campus and with all things technological there are exorbitant fees for access and one must wait for the right deal. I remain hopeful and confident that all things will continue to work out.

All is well. and I am especially mindful of the goodness of creation and all around me as we head into this season of Lent.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

timing is everything

So, my life is packed, again- 85 lbs of it strategically placed in two bags and a carryon of electronics. All is ready, yet I cannot go. My visa remains in-process at the South Africa consulate in DC. And I , I remain … trusting in full confidence that all will work out in the right time. I remain in awe of the grace given in the midst of having to reschedule flights and rearrange plans; the grace of remaining at home and present with family to grieve together the loss of a member. In this, my being is completely at peace. It seems that all things are working in just the right time, not necessarily my time or plan, but definitely the right time. One of the most significant times was yesterday morning-preaching my inaugural address from the pulpit was an affirming and beautiful experience. It was wonderful fellowship with my church family and my mom and aunt.
In thanksgiving for all things, always.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

jumpin' on the blog wagon

Countdown is 9 days! and still no visa... no stress though, right? :) All is well. Its amazing to think that at this hour two weeks from now I will be writing a post in my new apartment in Durban. So, thanks for continuing with me in this adventure. I promise it will be fun and exciting and full of all the everyday life stuff.